Whew. I can barely believe how quickly time has flown by this pregnancy. My due date is in 4 days!! I wasn't nearly as faithful with keeping up on pregnancy updates as I intended...but it turns out there aren't exactly that many things to update about on a weekly basis! {Or maybe I was just lazy...}
There are a few things I can tell you...
My weekly doctor's visits has been fine. Apparently my doctor doesn't measure dilation or effacement at the weekly visits. He said he doesn't think I will make it to next week's appointment (yay!!), but if I do, he will measure me then. It is so different than in the states when I was measured often. But it kind of keeps me from thinking about it too much. When I knew I was dilating a little more each week, I got anxious. This time, I am relaxed and just taking each day as it comes.
I guess I did OK gaining a little extra weight as the doctor ordered-- he never said anything else about it. I'm proud to say I only gained about 21 pounds with this pregnancy! I am *really* hoping this means it will be easy to drop the baby weight {and then some...} once Titus is born. My double jogger is all ready to go! ;-)
Wednesday morning I started feeling (what I believe were) contractions for almost 2 hours, about 5 minutes apart. But I tried laying back down and they slowed to 10 minutes and then went away completely. Boo! I can tell he is getting into position though. I have felt movement much lower than he has been this entire pregnancy.
My legs and feet finally started swelling. Again, this is SO MUCH later than when I was pregnant with Emilia and I'm so thankful! Jason and I just started noticing the swelling this week. My nurse said to keep my feet up as much as possible. I have found that pretty hard with such an active 3-yr-old, but I'm trying. Jason does a good job of playing with her when he gets off work too.
I'm not sure how this happened, but I completely forgot to register at the hospital! Thankfully, my doctor mentioned it at my appointment yesterday. So Emilia and I went up there and took care of it. I also asked to see the Labor & Delivery department...I wasn't so sure I really wanted to know ahead of time because we have heard the conditions aren't that great. But, my fears were laid to rest. Yes, everything is old and there are none of the comforts one would expect {like aircon...}. But from what I can tell, everything will be fine. I didn't get to see the nursery or recovery sections, but that's OK. (Nurse staff is low, so I couldn't find anyone to help me...) All in all, I know God is in complete control. This is HIS timing and HE will see us through. I still get scared thinking about doing this with no medication, but I know I can do it with HIS strength.
One funny thing I don't think I've mentioned yet-- I can actually SEE the end of my belly button!! Some of you know this is quite the feat. I have a crazy deep belly button when I'm not pregnant and with Emilia my stomach grew out differently so it stayed pretty deep still. This time around, I am ALL belly. I started noticing it several weeks ago and it keeps getting more shallow! It will never "pop" like some preggo mommas, but I'm impressed! Haha!
Emilia seems ready for her baby brother to get here too. It's hard to tell how she will really react. But she loves talking about him and I know she will be a great helper. I have already started mentioning to our friends that I really want them to still say "hi" to Emilia first when coming to visit, to hopefully help with jealousy. I also intend to let Emilia introduce Titus to new visitors. Before leaving the mainland, we let Emilia pick out a little blankie to give her brother. Last week, I purchased a gift "From Titus, to Emilia"- a pink ukelele! I have read about several parents doing something similar and I think she will love it. Jason and I both know we will have to make a conscious effort to give Emilia one-on-one time once he comes.
On a similar note, we have a fun afternoon planned for Emilia! I wanted to do "one last thing" as a family of three. So I found out about the "local discount" at a local water park. The rates during the week are pretty good so we are taking her today after Jason is done at school! This water park is part of a hotel called PIC. They also have great dinner deals during Happy Hour (5-7), where all the menu items are 1/2 off. So we have been there a couple times for dinner. We always have to walk past the water park to get to dinner and Emilia ALWAYS asks if she can go swimming there. So we knew this would be the perfect way to spend our afternoon. We haven't told her yet. I am SO excited to see her face when we tell her! (O:
I have been Pinning some newborn and sibling photo shoot ideas. I really *hope* I have the energy to capture these precious memories! I plan to do a monthly photo like I did with Emilia. I feel more confident in my photography skills this time around, so I also plan to do several more newborn photos of Titus and Emilia with Titus. I have a friend on island who is also a photographer and she is going to do a mini family session for us too. So don't you worry, there will be PLENTY of photos very soon!!
I think that pretty sums it up. Lots going on, but I always forget when it comes time to post! Thank you for all your prayers and encouragement throughout this pregnancy!!
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Friday, October 19, 2012
Friday, September 7, 2012
Visiting Sugar Dock
We don't post a lot about visiting the beach on Facebook, mostly because some people may think all we do is hang out in the ocean. This could not be farther from the truth. In actuality, we have been maybe 5 times since moving here, and at least 2 of those were trips that just Emilia and I took so she could search for shells. We are too busy with daily life to visit the beach all that often; so when we do, it's a rare and wonderful treat.
Yesterday was one of those treats. Jason came home from work and asked Emilia if she'd like to go swimming. You would have thought we had offered her the world she was so excited. From the moment J asked her, she didn't stop singing and dancing with joy. Even though I'm in the middle of coming down with the nasty first-weeks-of-school-cold that all the teachers had, I decided to go along. Nothing beats the joy on Emilia's face when she splashes around in the ocean.
We are also grateful for any family time we can squeeze in. Jason is still getting into the swing of things with teaching 4th grade, as well as all the extra hours outside of "school hours". Most days he is completely wiped out by the time he comes home. So it was nice to get out together, even just for an hour.
There is a section of the beach very near our house called Sugar Dock. It's not the prettiest beach of the island, but it works for quick visits like yesterday's.
Here is my 33 week preggo belly shot, as also posted on Facebook:
Here are a few other quick shots that I didn't post on FB. I feel I can trust those who visit my personal blog to know that this is a rare occurrence and you know we are about so much more than "chilling on the beach".
Yesterday was one of those treats. Jason came home from work and asked Emilia if she'd like to go swimming. You would have thought we had offered her the world she was so excited. From the moment J asked her, she didn't stop singing and dancing with joy. Even though I'm in the middle of coming down with the nasty first-weeks-of-school-cold that all the teachers had, I decided to go along. Nothing beats the joy on Emilia's face when she splashes around in the ocean.
We are also grateful for any family time we can squeeze in. Jason is still getting into the swing of things with teaching 4th grade, as well as all the extra hours outside of "school hours". Most days he is completely wiped out by the time he comes home. So it was nice to get out together, even just for an hour.
There is a section of the beach very near our house called Sugar Dock. It's not the prettiest beach of the island, but it works for quick visits like yesterday's.
Here is my 33 week preggo belly shot, as also posted on Facebook:
Here are a few other quick shots that I didn't post on FB. I feel I can trust those who visit my personal blog to know that this is a rare occurrence and you know we are about so much more than "chilling on the beach".
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Update :: 33 Weeks!
I am very sorry for my lack of updates on both the Saipan and pregnancy fronts. We are still working to make our new apartment into a home and playing with Emilia takes up a lot of time. (O:
Would you like to know how things are going at 33 weeks?
*I only have 7 weeks to my due date-- WOW! Time has flown by!
*Baby is roughly the size of a pineapple and growing every day. I feel him moving all throughout the day and it is so sweet.
*I have only noticed 2 new "stretch dots", as I call them. Nothing larger than a dot so far, for which I'm very glad.
*My weight is still in check. In fact, at my check up last week, my doctor actually told me I needed to gain between 4-6 pounds between now and my due date. Let me tell you- this is the *First* time in my life I have been told to Gain Weight! His exact works: "Now is not the time to restrict what you eat". How is that for awesome? What's funny- I haven't been limiting myself at all since we've been here. We definitely eat more fresh fruits and veggies daily, as well as drink much more water and walk quite a bit. But, we also frequent the Shell Gas Station for $1 ice cream and snack on cookies, etc.
*I made it all the way to this week before any of my pre-preggo skirts/shorts/bottoms started getting a little tight. Lucky for me, Saipan dress doesn't go much past athletic shorts and tanks. I also have several skirts I made out of over-sized tee shirts. They have been such a life saver out here! They keep me from looking totally scrubby every day, but still moderately comfortable.
*Sleeping is becoming a chore. Rolling from one side the other now involves practically sitting up and switching sides. Any momma who has gone through pregnancy knows what I'm talking about. Nothing horrible, but it is getting noticeably annoying.
*The two boxes of baby stuff we shipped from the mainland made it safe and sound last week, thank you Lord! I have been busy finding places for all the onesies, burp cloths, cloth diapers, toys, etc. I found a great deal on a baby swing on island and Jason's mom purchased a pack n play and baby care cart for us. We plan to use the pack n play instead of a crib, to save room. It fits nicely in our "sleeping room" and surprised me with a cute little giraffe design on it.
*I have asked my doctor all sorts of questions about the hospital care here on the island, as there are several issues currently circulating. He has assured me that while some conditions are not ideal, I will be safe to deliver here. There is no risk to me or the baby with a natural deliver, nor if I must have an emergency C-Section. He did emphasize that the hospital is no where near the comforts of the mainland. The beds in Labor and Delivery are, in his words, "archaic", but functional. I was also glad to hear that there are nearly no restrictions on how I may labor- as long as it isn't medically dangerous, I am free to walk the halls, use a birthing ball, or even "stand on my head", as my doctor said. ;-)
*Another pregnancy side effect (haha) is an even worse memory than before...so I cannot think of any other updates right now.
I'm not sure if there will be much else to update over the next few weeks, but if there is, I will do my best to post more timely! I will also try to post an update belly picture soon. (O:
Would you like to know how things are going at 33 weeks?
*I only have 7 weeks to my due date-- WOW! Time has flown by!
*Baby is roughly the size of a pineapple and growing every day. I feel him moving all throughout the day and it is so sweet.
*I have only noticed 2 new "stretch dots", as I call them. Nothing larger than a dot so far, for which I'm very glad.
*My weight is still in check. In fact, at my check up last week, my doctor actually told me I needed to gain between 4-6 pounds between now and my due date. Let me tell you- this is the *First* time in my life I have been told to Gain Weight! His exact works: "Now is not the time to restrict what you eat". How is that for awesome? What's funny- I haven't been limiting myself at all since we've been here. We definitely eat more fresh fruits and veggies daily, as well as drink much more water and walk quite a bit. But, we also frequent the Shell Gas Station for $1 ice cream and snack on cookies, etc.
*I made it all the way to this week before any of my pre-preggo skirts/shorts/bottoms started getting a little tight. Lucky for me, Saipan dress doesn't go much past athletic shorts and tanks. I also have several skirts I made out of over-sized tee shirts. They have been such a life saver out here! They keep me from looking totally scrubby every day, but still moderately comfortable.
*Sleeping is becoming a chore. Rolling from one side the other now involves practically sitting up and switching sides. Any momma who has gone through pregnancy knows what I'm talking about. Nothing horrible, but it is getting noticeably annoying.
*The two boxes of baby stuff we shipped from the mainland made it safe and sound last week, thank you Lord! I have been busy finding places for all the onesies, burp cloths, cloth diapers, toys, etc. I found a great deal on a baby swing on island and Jason's mom purchased a pack n play and baby care cart for us. We plan to use the pack n play instead of a crib, to save room. It fits nicely in our "sleeping room" and surprised me with a cute little giraffe design on it.
*I have asked my doctor all sorts of questions about the hospital care here on the island, as there are several issues currently circulating. He has assured me that while some conditions are not ideal, I will be safe to deliver here. There is no risk to me or the baby with a natural deliver, nor if I must have an emergency C-Section. He did emphasize that the hospital is no where near the comforts of the mainland. The beds in Labor and Delivery are, in his words, "archaic", but functional. I was also glad to hear that there are nearly no restrictions on how I may labor- as long as it isn't medically dangerous, I am free to walk the halls, use a birthing ball, or even "stand on my head", as my doctor said. ;-)
*Another pregnancy side effect (haha) is an even worse memory than before...so I cannot think of any other updates right now.
I'm not sure if there will be much else to update over the next few weeks, but if there is, I will do my best to post more timely! I will also try to post an update belly picture soon. (O:
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Maternity Clothes on a Dime
Now that I am starting to outgrow {or fit too tightly in} some of my regualar clothes, I have started pulling out the ol' maternity clothes tubs. I have a very limited selection of summer maternity wear, for a couple of reasons.
The last time I was pregnant:
1. It was mostly during winter months.
2. I wore scrubs to work every day. Therefore needing much less "real people" clothing.
3. I was lazy. {Read- most nights I came home from work and transferred directly to sweats.}
I have pulled out what I can from those tubs and I'm stretching {figuratively and probably literally} my creativity and resourcefulness with my other clothes.
Outfitting one's closet with maternity clothes can be tiresome and expensive. But it doesn't have to be.
~*~
My absolute, hands down favorite article of clothing, which I am certain will stick around for almost my entire (if not entire) pregnancy are the Old Navy Jersey Stretch Tanks, or Tamis. This tank has modest chest coverage and is also longer than other tank styles. I am someone who wears a tank under my shirt every day, so I definitely love these. I own a ridiculous number of these in every color they have stocked in the past few years. Before pregnancy, I rarely wore these on their own because I don't like my clothes fitting too closely to my body. (I'm sure they looked fine, I'm just weird. Plus, lots of other people wear them alone.) But, since my belly has started making its grand appearance, I have stepped out of my comfort zone and I'm sporting these by themselves! Usually I layer 2 together for smoothness and an extra pop of color. They go so well with my newly made t-shirt skirts for a comfy, on-the-go look. I know I will be especially grateful for this large collection once we hit Saipan!
Challenge #1: Go through your tank collection and see which ones might work throughout your pregnancy. Depending on the material, you may have to worry about stretching some out. But, the ON Tamis have been through many shapes and sizes with me and always go back to their original form.
~*~
Another regular item I have enjoyed turning into maternity are a couple nicer style sleeveless tops which are supposed to tie in the back. I picked them up on Target Clearance last fall in preparation for our Saipan move. Lucky for me, I can fit in them right now. (Yay for wearing loose clothing pre-pregnancy!) One little trick I tried the other day and LOVED- instead of tying in the back, I tie in the front, off to one side. This helps accentuate my little baby bump instead of just looking chubby! I have received numerous compliments on these tops and I also look forward to wearing them regularly again one day!
Along with these couple tops, I am also glad that tunic-style tops are still in fashion. Talk about getting good mileage out of a piece of clothing! Something that is supposed to look loose and flowy while not pregnant means you have lots of growing room in the same shirt. Chance are it will still look cute as your bump starts to fill the space.
Challenge #2: Test out some of your favorite tops that could possibly be styled or accessorized differently to work as early to mid-maternity shirts. This could buy you a few months of extra wear before having to make the switch to "real" maternity clothes.
~*~
By some miracle, I am still able to fit into all my pre-preggo pants, shorts, skirts, etc. (It's not really a miracle...I am keeping a closer watch on my food intake and exercizing much more consistently this time around). I am in love with any yoga band bottoms I own. Unlike my jeans and other bottoms that zip/button, yoga bands do not cut into my tummy and always help round out the bump. I may be the only person left on earth wearing gauchos, and I'm OK with that. I have loved them since the first day they appeared on the racks and I have never looked back. Combined with my t-shirt skirts and other skirts with similar waist bands, I can coast through my pregnancy in comfort and style. (Not to mention, they are airy and cool. Major pluses when moving to an island...)
I also have a little trick for extending the life of pants when they start feeling uncomfortable while buttoned. My friend taught this one to me during my first pregnancy, and you may already know it. Take a rubberband (or toddler hair band, in my case), loop it through the button hole of your pants and secure around the button. That little bit of "give" takes your fav jeans a long way.
(Keep an eye on your zipper though, mine tends to creep down throughout the day...)
Challenge #3: Try on your pants/capris/shorts to see which pairs fit everywhere BUT the closure and test the rubber band theory for a little extra life.
~*~
Another one of my favorite tricks is to purchase one size up in a few clothing staples. I have been stocking up on ON tanks in one size larger so they will fit later in my pregnancy. The added bonus being, after the baby comes and before I can fit my pre-maternity clothes, at least I'm OUT of maternity clothes! ;-)
Challenge #4: Keep an eye out for good deals or sales on your favorite staple items and put back a few in one size larger for the end of your pregnancy. Old Navy has a $2, $4, $6 tank sale going on this Memorial Day Weekend. I just scored several new tanks to add to the rotation, and I will be able to use them post partum too!
I know I will sooner or later end up in all "real" maternity clothes, but I am glad to get some extended use out of some "regular" favorites in the mean time. Do you have a favorite trick or tip for making regular clothes work as maternity?
The last time I was pregnant:
1. It was mostly during winter months.
2. I wore scrubs to work every day. Therefore needing much less "real people" clothing.
3. I was lazy. {Read- most nights I came home from work and transferred directly to sweats.}
I have pulled out what I can from those tubs and I'm stretching {figuratively and probably literally} my creativity and resourcefulness with my other clothes.
Outfitting one's closet with maternity clothes can be tiresome and expensive. But it doesn't have to be.
~*~
My absolute, hands down favorite article of clothing, which I am certain will stick around for almost my entire (if not entire) pregnancy are the Old Navy Jersey Stretch Tanks, or Tamis. This tank has modest chest coverage and is also longer than other tank styles. I am someone who wears a tank under my shirt every day, so I definitely love these. I own a ridiculous number of these in every color they have stocked in the past few years. Before pregnancy, I rarely wore these on their own because I don't like my clothes fitting too closely to my body. (I'm sure they looked fine, I'm just weird. Plus, lots of other people wear them alone.) But, since my belly has started making its grand appearance, I have stepped out of my comfort zone and I'm sporting these by themselves! Usually I layer 2 together for smoothness and an extra pop of color. They go so well with my newly made t-shirt skirts for a comfy, on-the-go look. I know I will be especially grateful for this large collection once we hit Saipan!
Challenge #1: Go through your tank collection and see which ones might work throughout your pregnancy. Depending on the material, you may have to worry about stretching some out. But, the ON Tamis have been through many shapes and sizes with me and always go back to their original form.
~*~
Another regular item I have enjoyed turning into maternity are a couple nicer style sleeveless tops which are supposed to tie in the back. I picked them up on Target Clearance last fall in preparation for our Saipan move. Lucky for me, I can fit in them right now. (Yay for wearing loose clothing pre-pregnancy!) One little trick I tried the other day and LOVED- instead of tying in the back, I tie in the front, off to one side. This helps accentuate my little baby bump instead of just looking chubby! I have received numerous compliments on these tops and I also look forward to wearing them regularly again one day!
Along with these couple tops, I am also glad that tunic-style tops are still in fashion. Talk about getting good mileage out of a piece of clothing! Something that is supposed to look loose and flowy while not pregnant means you have lots of growing room in the same shirt. Chance are it will still look cute as your bump starts to fill the space.
Challenge #2: Test out some of your favorite tops that could possibly be styled or accessorized differently to work as early to mid-maternity shirts. This could buy you a few months of extra wear before having to make the switch to "real" maternity clothes.
~*~
By some miracle, I am still able to fit into all my pre-preggo pants, shorts, skirts, etc. (It's not really a miracle...I am keeping a closer watch on my food intake and exercizing much more consistently this time around). I am in love with any yoga band bottoms I own. Unlike my jeans and other bottoms that zip/button, yoga bands do not cut into my tummy and always help round out the bump. I may be the only person left on earth wearing gauchos, and I'm OK with that. I have loved them since the first day they appeared on the racks and I have never looked back. Combined with my t-shirt skirts and other skirts with similar waist bands, I can coast through my pregnancy in comfort and style. (Not to mention, they are airy and cool. Major pluses when moving to an island...)
I also have a little trick for extending the life of pants when they start feeling uncomfortable while buttoned. My friend taught this one to me during my first pregnancy, and you may already know it. Take a rubberband (or toddler hair band, in my case), loop it through the button hole of your pants and secure around the button. That little bit of "give" takes your fav jeans a long way.
(Keep an eye on your zipper though, mine tends to creep down throughout the day...)Challenge #3: Try on your pants/capris/shorts to see which pairs fit everywhere BUT the closure and test the rubber band theory for a little extra life.
~*~
Another one of my favorite tricks is to purchase one size up in a few clothing staples. I have been stocking up on ON tanks in one size larger so they will fit later in my pregnancy. The added bonus being, after the baby comes and before I can fit my pre-maternity clothes, at least I'm OUT of maternity clothes! ;-)
Challenge #4: Keep an eye out for good deals or sales on your favorite staple items and put back a few in one size larger for the end of your pregnancy. Old Navy has a $2, $4, $6 tank sale going on this Memorial Day Weekend. I just scored several new tanks to add to the rotation, and I will be able to use them post partum too!
I know I will sooner or later end up in all "real" maternity clothes, but I am glad to get some extended use out of some "regular" favorites in the mean time. Do you have a favorite trick or tip for making regular clothes work as maternity?
Thursday, May 24, 2012
Update :: 18 Weeks
Seeing as I completely forgot to do last week's update, I guess we can add forgetfulness to the list...(O:
I don't really feel like there is much to report, but I will try.
*Weight: gained 3ish pounds, still doing OK.
*Exercise: I try to attend Zumba at least once a week and add in walking the park on other days as I can.
*Clothes: I am surprised and happy to report that most of my pre-maternity clothes still fit! There are 2 pairs of jeans/jean shorts that I have had to do the old "hair tie around the button" trick, but otherwise they are holding steady. I have started adding maternity tanks and tops to the rotation for a little variety.
*Food: No new cravings. I have noticed that I think all milk smells slightly spoiled (when it is not)...which is weird. I don't have a complete aversion to milk (yet), but I have been drinking less of it- especially plain white milk. I guess this is a good thing, since I'm "off milk" once on Saipan anyway...but still a bummer.
*Preparations: Thanks to my wonderful friend, Elise, I am now almost fully stocked on cloth diapers!!! She was able to attend the Cotton Babies $1 Diaper Sale this past weekend and was kind enough to take my "Wish List". She was even able to snag several in my favorite colors- kelly green and orange. Yay! Thanks friend!! (O: I still have a gift certificate from my coworkers to use at CB, and I am researching diaper inserts, etc. Feel free to throw any suggestions/opinions/advice my way! ;-)
I received TWO gift packages yesterday in the mail, speaking of cloth diapers. One was from an old high school friend- she sent me a package of the cloth diaper kit she purchased and never used. I am glad to help put it to good use! Also, my Aunt Emilia sent a whole cloth diaper making kit!! It is the cutest set I have ever seen. My mom had asked about a pattern for them because she wanted to try to make some and so I was excited to tell her I have Everything she needs to make 3! Thanks Tracey and Aunt Emilia for your love and encouragement!! (O:
*Other Prepartaions: I was finally able to confirm with United Airlines that each Jason and I can check either a stroller or car seat, free of charge. Jason can check the stroller and I can check Emilia's car seat, both for free! Whew! Now the debate about whether to purchase a double jogger here or wait to see if someone has one on Saipan continues...I can honestly say this is my only packing/planning Saipan worry at the moment. I honestly do not know which option is the right one. We are still considering the Baby Jogger Double City Mini...and it's hefty price tag. I have found a few online for cheaper than retail, but it is still a big investment. And a hard one. I believe my friends who tell me it is a worthy investment, but I cannot help but feel guilty for spending that much on a stroller. Each time I think about what to do, I get anxious and decide to leave that decision for another day. (haha, good ol' avoidance...)
*Emilia: We ask her often if she wants a brother or a sister. Sister has been winning over the past couple weeks...in fact, Emilia says she now has a "Sister Baby in her belly too". Our discussions to the contrary are not changing her mind. She also thinks she can see the "Sister Baby" by looking down my throat. ;-) We find out the gender in two weeks...I'm praying she will be excited either way!
*Belly: It is officially out there and *finally starting to round a little. Thankfully!! I think my belly is a little lopsided and definitely LOW. My SIL has also joined the races and is betting on a Boy. This pregnancy has been different from Emilia in so many ways, she might just be right! Only time will tell! (O:
*Pictures: I haven't decided yet how often I will take updated "Baby Bump" photos...but the first one may come in the next few weeks. I can't remember how early friends started posting pics of their bellies....but I wanted to make sure it was at least noticeably preggo before posting. ;-)
That's all for today. It turns out I did have some updates to share! Have a lovely day! (O:
I don't really feel like there is much to report, but I will try.
*Weight: gained 3ish pounds, still doing OK.
*Exercise: I try to attend Zumba at least once a week and add in walking the park on other days as I can.
*Clothes: I am surprised and happy to report that most of my pre-maternity clothes still fit! There are 2 pairs of jeans/jean shorts that I have had to do the old "hair tie around the button" trick, but otherwise they are holding steady. I have started adding maternity tanks and tops to the rotation for a little variety.
*Food: No new cravings. I have noticed that I think all milk smells slightly spoiled (when it is not)...which is weird. I don't have a complete aversion to milk (yet), but I have been drinking less of it- especially plain white milk. I guess this is a good thing, since I'm "off milk" once on Saipan anyway...but still a bummer.
*Preparations: Thanks to my wonderful friend, Elise, I am now almost fully stocked on cloth diapers!!! She was able to attend the Cotton Babies $1 Diaper Sale this past weekend and was kind enough to take my "Wish List". She was even able to snag several in my favorite colors- kelly green and orange. Yay! Thanks friend!! (O: I still have a gift certificate from my coworkers to use at CB, and I am researching diaper inserts, etc. Feel free to throw any suggestions/opinions/advice my way! ;-)
I received TWO gift packages yesterday in the mail, speaking of cloth diapers. One was from an old high school friend- she sent me a package of the cloth diaper kit she purchased and never used. I am glad to help put it to good use! Also, my Aunt Emilia sent a whole cloth diaper making kit!! It is the cutest set I have ever seen. My mom had asked about a pattern for them because she wanted to try to make some and so I was excited to tell her I have Everything she needs to make 3! Thanks Tracey and Aunt Emilia for your love and encouragement!! (O:
*Other Prepartaions: I was finally able to confirm with United Airlines that each Jason and I can check either a stroller or car seat, free of charge. Jason can check the stroller and I can check Emilia's car seat, both for free! Whew! Now the debate about whether to purchase a double jogger here or wait to see if someone has one on Saipan continues...I can honestly say this is my only packing/planning Saipan worry at the moment. I honestly do not know which option is the right one. We are still considering the Baby Jogger Double City Mini...and it's hefty price tag. I have found a few online for cheaper than retail, but it is still a big investment. And a hard one. I believe my friends who tell me it is a worthy investment, but I cannot help but feel guilty for spending that much on a stroller. Each time I think about what to do, I get anxious and decide to leave that decision for another day. (haha, good ol' avoidance...)
*Emilia: We ask her often if she wants a brother or a sister. Sister has been winning over the past couple weeks...in fact, Emilia says she now has a "Sister Baby in her belly too". Our discussions to the contrary are not changing her mind. She also thinks she can see the "Sister Baby" by looking down my throat. ;-) We find out the gender in two weeks...I'm praying she will be excited either way!
*Belly: It is officially out there and *finally starting to round a little. Thankfully!! I think my belly is a little lopsided and definitely LOW. My SIL has also joined the races and is betting on a Boy. This pregnancy has been different from Emilia in so many ways, she might just be right! Only time will tell! (O:
*Pictures: I haven't decided yet how often I will take updated "Baby Bump" photos...but the first one may come in the next few weeks. I can't remember how early friends started posting pics of their bellies....but I wanted to make sure it was at least noticeably preggo before posting. ;-)
That's all for today. It turns out I did have some updates to share! Have a lovely day! (O:
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
16 Weeks Update
Hello!
I had my 16 week check-up on Monday and everything looks good!
*Baby's heartbeat is around 155 and I cannot remember if girls or boys are said to have higher heartbeats...
*Baby is about the size of an avocado (O:
*Weight is holding steady (thank you Zumba!)
*The "BUMP" is officially here, no more denying it or hiding it. It's not a full-out preggo bump yet, but it is past the "little bit of chubb" stage.
*I am still pretty tired. Most nights I go straight to sleep after putting Emilia to bed around 8:30.
*No real food cravings. The most I can describe is when a person talks about a food that sounds good, I then cannot get that food out of my mind and it must be consumed. Like right now, it's a doughnut...and scrambled eggs. (Not together). I have noticed a decreased appetite, which I think is because most things do not sound good- except Ravioli...my rav intake is on the upswing. ;-)
*My memory is deteriorating by the day...seriously, like it could get any worse.
*Emilia's latest decision regarding gender is boy...then girl...then boy. I hope this means she will be satisfied either way. Only time will tell! She does ask to hold the baby often, not completely understanding that she has to wait a few more months. I think she will be a great big sister.
*I have decided to take a break from baby product searches. They make me tired and we aren't at a point where we can start making purchases yet, so why bother. The only thing we really *need* will be cloth diapers and I already have those decisions made. So, we will wait and make the purchases a few months down the road. (Would it be rude to ask those wanting to throw a "Sprinkle Shower" to consider Cotton Babies gift cards or cash towards these purchases? Probably...but I'm worried about getting a bunch of toys, etc. that we cannot really take with us. OK, another issue for another day...)
*Exciting news on the maternity clothes front! I scored 2 pairs of jean capris and one pair of jean shorts for $1 each...yay! (Did I already mention that? Probably...) But then yesterday I found a pair of Gap Long and Lean maternity jeans in my size for a very reasonable price as well! L&L are my favorite style of jeans- the ones I don't even have to try on because I know they always fit. So that was a very exciting find. I cannot wait for them to arrive. I may turn them into capris or bermuda shorts so I can maximize their use this summer and on Saipan.
One last thing to note...I recently found out that Saipan does not administer epidurals unless there is an emergency. To those who had their children "drug-free", this might not seem like that big of a deal. But, honestly, I am not brave, I have never admitted to be. I am not excited about this. I have had a few well-meaning mommas tell me it is the best thing they have ever done, and I am sure they believe that. I also believe that I CAN do this- I HAVE TO. Soon enough I will start researching coping with the pain, etc etc. But for right now, I want to just be able to say that I'm not looking forward to it and honestly, I am scared. While I appreciate the encouragement of friends and family, I am not ready to start hearing the glory stories of others. I'm sorry if that is rude, but it is how I feel. I hope to come around to a more positive place soon, and I am sure I will. But right now, I just want someone to agree with me that it really stinks. (End pity party).
Sorry to end on such a bummer of a note. I wanted to express even the sad/scary moments of this pregnancy and there was never going to be an exact right moment to do it. So, say a little prayer for me and I will try to be more positive next week. ;-)
I had my 16 week check-up on Monday and everything looks good!
*Baby's heartbeat is around 155 and I cannot remember if girls or boys are said to have higher heartbeats...
*Baby is about the size of an avocado (O:
*Weight is holding steady (thank you Zumba!)
*The "BUMP" is officially here, no more denying it or hiding it. It's not a full-out preggo bump yet, but it is past the "little bit of chubb" stage.
*I am still pretty tired. Most nights I go straight to sleep after putting Emilia to bed around 8:30.
*No real food cravings. The most I can describe is when a person talks about a food that sounds good, I then cannot get that food out of my mind and it must be consumed. Like right now, it's a doughnut...and scrambled eggs. (Not together). I have noticed a decreased appetite, which I think is because most things do not sound good- except Ravioli...my rav intake is on the upswing. ;-)
*My memory is deteriorating by the day...seriously, like it could get any worse.
*Emilia's latest decision regarding gender is boy...then girl...then boy. I hope this means she will be satisfied either way. Only time will tell! She does ask to hold the baby often, not completely understanding that she has to wait a few more months. I think she will be a great big sister.
*I have decided to take a break from baby product searches. They make me tired and we aren't at a point where we can start making purchases yet, so why bother. The only thing we really *need* will be cloth diapers and I already have those decisions made. So, we will wait and make the purchases a few months down the road. (Would it be rude to ask those wanting to throw a "Sprinkle Shower" to consider Cotton Babies gift cards or cash towards these purchases? Probably...but I'm worried about getting a bunch of toys, etc. that we cannot really take with us. OK, another issue for another day...)
*Exciting news on the maternity clothes front! I scored 2 pairs of jean capris and one pair of jean shorts for $1 each...yay! (Did I already mention that? Probably...) But then yesterday I found a pair of Gap Long and Lean maternity jeans in my size for a very reasonable price as well! L&L are my favorite style of jeans- the ones I don't even have to try on because I know they always fit. So that was a very exciting find. I cannot wait for them to arrive. I may turn them into capris or bermuda shorts so I can maximize their use this summer and on Saipan.
One last thing to note...I recently found out that Saipan does not administer epidurals unless there is an emergency. To those who had their children "drug-free", this might not seem like that big of a deal. But, honestly, I am not brave, I have never admitted to be. I am not excited about this. I have had a few well-meaning mommas tell me it is the best thing they have ever done, and I am sure they believe that. I also believe that I CAN do this- I HAVE TO. Soon enough I will start researching coping with the pain, etc etc. But for right now, I want to just be able to say that I'm not looking forward to it and honestly, I am scared. While I appreciate the encouragement of friends and family, I am not ready to start hearing the glory stories of others. I'm sorry if that is rude, but it is how I feel. I hope to come around to a more positive place soon, and I am sure I will. But right now, I just want someone to agree with me that it really stinks. (End pity party).
Sorry to end on such a bummer of a note. I wanted to express even the sad/scary moments of this pregnancy and there was never going to be an exact right moment to do it. So, say a little prayer for me and I will try to be more positive next week. ;-)
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Just a matter of weeks
The closer we get to our Saipan launch date, the more I begin to count big milestones by number of weeks. This helps make these events more tangible, and also makes them a little scary! This is my life, in a matter of weeks:
3 Weeks left at my current job
4 Weeks left until we go on full mission support
4 Weeks until we *hopefully* find out Saipan Baby's gender (Make your guesses now!) ;0)
(Less than) 5 Weeks until we (Emilia included) leave for a month-long Cultural Training course in North Carolina
8 Weeks until our Commissioning Service at Skyline Church
9 Weeks until the General Baptist Missions & Ministry Summit in Springfield, MO
10 Weeks until we say Goodbye to everyone and everything we have ever known, board a plane (or three...) and say Hello to a whole new life God has planned for us!
24 Weeks to Saipan Baby's due date
Whew! Does that list make anyone besides me tired and a little anxious?? More tired than anxious. I Know God has this all under control, and I trust Him with everything.
It just doesn't seem possible that we are THIS CLOSE to leaving. Wasn't it just September when we were announcing the initial decision? How did so much time sneak by us? Crunch time is here and I feel under-prepared. It looks like it might be time to start making lists again...oh rats! ;-)
3 Weeks left at my current job
4 Weeks left until we go on full mission support
4 Weeks until we *hopefully* find out Saipan Baby's gender (Make your guesses now!) ;0)
(Less than) 5 Weeks until we (Emilia included) leave for a month-long Cultural Training course in North Carolina
8 Weeks until our Commissioning Service at Skyline Church
9 Weeks until the General Baptist Missions & Ministry Summit in Springfield, MO
10 Weeks until we say Goodbye to everyone and everything we have ever known, board a plane (or three...) and say Hello to a whole new life God has planned for us!
24 Weeks to Saipan Baby's due date
Whew! Does that list make anyone besides me tired and a little anxious?? More tired than anxious. I Know God has this all under control, and I trust Him with everything.
It just doesn't seem possible that we are THIS CLOSE to leaving. Wasn't it just September when we were announcing the initial decision? How did so much time sneak by us? Crunch time is here and I feel under-prepared. It looks like it might be time to start making lists again...oh rats! ;-)
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Update :: 15 Weeks
I am 15 weeks pregnant as of today and still feeling good. Not much has changed since last week, but here are the highlights:
*Baby is now about the size of an apple!
*Still not nauseous, still tired.
*No new cravings. I did feed the fried fish craving last night (YUM!!) and continue to drink apple juice almost daily. Oddly, I haven't been very interested in food this week. Nothing sounds all that good. I'm still eating, it's just not as fun. Haha!
*Weight: Holding strong, no weight gain! (I just wanted to mention that I know it probably seems like I am overly concerned about weight gain. I really over-did it in this area while pregnant with Emilia. So I am trying to do better this time of watching what I eat and exercising regularly. Also, I started this pregnany a little overweight, so I'm not supposed to gain as much during the pregnancy. Don't worry about me- I'm still eating plenty; I am just trying to make better decisions this time around!)
*According to Jason and my mom (and me, if I am being honest), my belly has started to poke out a little. This is probably my least favorite stage because I don't look pregnant...just like I gained a few pounds. I don't like the "chubby belly preggo stage" and hope it passes quickly. My regular clothes still fit well, you can just notice my belly more than before.
*Zumba is starting to kick my butt! I have to modify several moves and I Really don't like having to do that. I want to be able to give 110%, but I know it isn't a good idea for me, or the baby. So I do all the moves I can and modify the rest. Again, since I do not exactly look pregnant yet, I feel like announcing to the class that "I am pregnant, not just a wuss". I doubt anyone else cares about this as much as I do anyway. ;-)
In other news:
The search rages on for a good double jogging stroller. I have been looking into a friend's recommendation about the Baby Jogger City Mini Double Stroller. From what I am told, they actually fold down to the size of a regular single stroller. This would be great because we would be able to take it on the planes- not just on our initial move to Saipan, but anytime we visit surrounding areas. The trouble is- these strollers are EXPENSIVE!! Way outside our budget, for sure. I have been scouring Craiglist and even eBay for a good deal on one. I feel like I am really obsessing over this one item, and maybe I am. The reason I am overly concerned about finding a good double jogger is because Walmart does not ship strollers overseas. So far, everything else I have looked up (pack n play, swing, car seat, etc.) will ship for $1.97 each (YAAY!!). But, strollers are just too big. I don't really want to test my luck about finding one once on island, so I am trying to plan ahead. I honestly don't entirely care about the brand, as long as it has kid trays and a swivel wheel. But, I am trying to find the best (and most cost-effective) option for our family.
J and I also discussed baby's sleeping options this week. I looked at a couple mini-cribs and came across a review that mentioned putting a mini crib mattress in a pack n play. The reviews said it fit perfectly. Soo, I think we might give this option a try. Baby will be sleeping in our room for who-knows-how-long (only a 2 bedroom apartment and we don't think Emilia will do well with a roommate...she's not a great sleeper). But our room is pretty small, so we were worried about how much space a full-sized crib would take up. A pack n play seems like a perfect solution. It is small and with the added 3" crib mattress, it will have the same level of comfort as in a crib. That's the opinion of the week, at any rate.
I have a little collection of white onesies already underway, yay! I decided to start looking for them at yard sales, clearance, etc. so that once we know the gender of our baby, I can start dyeing some, appliqueing others, and fill the wardrobe this way. If we have a girl again, I have most of the onesies we will need. But if we have a boy, I am seriously lacking. (Notice I didn't say empty-handed...yes, I have a tote *or two* of cute little boy clothes I have picked up over the years, just in case we ever had a boy. I'm THAT girl.)
I have an appointment this coming Monday (5/9) for a regular check up. I think I will get the results of my blood tests and that should be about it. I am trying to psych myself up to ask for a sneak ultrasound (which my doctor is known for doing from time to time). I want to test this theory I was told about by my friend Lacey- The Nub Theory. She says she was able to tell her second baby was going to be a boy at 12 weeks. She was right! I have only done minimal research on the subject, but I think it would be fun to test the theory. I am planning to ask my doctor if she has ever heard of it and say I would love to test the theory if we had time for a quick u/s. Wish me luck! (O:
OK, so I guess a thing or two happened this week, now that I look back at this post! Haha! I hope I didn't bore you too much! ;-)
*Baby is now about the size of an apple!
*Still not nauseous, still tired.
*No new cravings. I did feed the fried fish craving last night (YUM!!) and continue to drink apple juice almost daily. Oddly, I haven't been very interested in food this week. Nothing sounds all that good. I'm still eating, it's just not as fun. Haha!
*Weight: Holding strong, no weight gain! (I just wanted to mention that I know it probably seems like I am overly concerned about weight gain. I really over-did it in this area while pregnant with Emilia. So I am trying to do better this time of watching what I eat and exercising regularly. Also, I started this pregnany a little overweight, so I'm not supposed to gain as much during the pregnancy. Don't worry about me- I'm still eating plenty; I am just trying to make better decisions this time around!)
*According to Jason and my mom (and me, if I am being honest), my belly has started to poke out a little. This is probably my least favorite stage because I don't look pregnant...just like I gained a few pounds. I don't like the "chubby belly preggo stage" and hope it passes quickly. My regular clothes still fit well, you can just notice my belly more than before.
*Zumba is starting to kick my butt! I have to modify several moves and I Really don't like having to do that. I want to be able to give 110%, but I know it isn't a good idea for me, or the baby. So I do all the moves I can and modify the rest. Again, since I do not exactly look pregnant yet, I feel like announcing to the class that "I am pregnant, not just a wuss". I doubt anyone else cares about this as much as I do anyway. ;-)
In other news:
The search rages on for a good double jogging stroller. I have been looking into a friend's recommendation about the Baby Jogger City Mini Double Stroller. From what I am told, they actually fold down to the size of a regular single stroller. This would be great because we would be able to take it on the planes- not just on our initial move to Saipan, but anytime we visit surrounding areas. The trouble is- these strollers are EXPENSIVE!! Way outside our budget, for sure. I have been scouring Craiglist and even eBay for a good deal on one. I feel like I am really obsessing over this one item, and maybe I am. The reason I am overly concerned about finding a good double jogger is because Walmart does not ship strollers overseas. So far, everything else I have looked up (pack n play, swing, car seat, etc.) will ship for $1.97 each (YAAY!!). But, strollers are just too big. I don't really want to test my luck about finding one once on island, so I am trying to plan ahead. I honestly don't entirely care about the brand, as long as it has kid trays and a swivel wheel. But, I am trying to find the best (and most cost-effective) option for our family.
J and I also discussed baby's sleeping options this week. I looked at a couple mini-cribs and came across a review that mentioned putting a mini crib mattress in a pack n play. The reviews said it fit perfectly. Soo, I think we might give this option a try. Baby will be sleeping in our room for who-knows-how-long (only a 2 bedroom apartment and we don't think Emilia will do well with a roommate...she's not a great sleeper). But our room is pretty small, so we were worried about how much space a full-sized crib would take up. A pack n play seems like a perfect solution. It is small and with the added 3" crib mattress, it will have the same level of comfort as in a crib. That's the opinion of the week, at any rate.
I have a little collection of white onesies already underway, yay! I decided to start looking for them at yard sales, clearance, etc. so that once we know the gender of our baby, I can start dyeing some, appliqueing others, and fill the wardrobe this way. If we have a girl again, I have most of the onesies we will need. But if we have a boy, I am seriously lacking. (Notice I didn't say empty-handed...yes, I have a tote *or two* of cute little boy clothes I have picked up over the years, just in case we ever had a boy. I'm THAT girl.)
I have an appointment this coming Monday (5/9) for a regular check up. I think I will get the results of my blood tests and that should be about it. I am trying to psych myself up to ask for a sneak ultrasound (which my doctor is known for doing from time to time). I want to test this theory I was told about by my friend Lacey- The Nub Theory. She says she was able to tell her second baby was going to be a boy at 12 weeks. She was right! I have only done minimal research on the subject, but I think it would be fun to test the theory. I am planning to ask my doctor if she has ever heard of it and say I would love to test the theory if we had time for a quick u/s. Wish me luck! (O:
OK, so I guess a thing or two happened this week, now that I look back at this post! Haha! I hope I didn't bore you too much! ;-)
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
Our News (O:
It has actually been almost two weeks since we announced our newest "Big News" to friends and family (which means almost all of you already know about it). So this post isn't exactly earth-shattering, but I wanted to record this exciting time to look back on at some point in the future.
Stats:
14 weeks tomorrow
Lemon-sized baby ;-)
No morning sickness (yay!)
Minimal heartburn after meals
Very. T.I.R.E.D.
Craving Chinese, BBQ, fried fish and apple juice
Still Zumba-ing, but modifying certain moves
Still in non-maternity clothes
Starting weight maintaining so far
Memory worse than normal..haha.
Emilia is pretty excited about it. We don't think she completely understands, but she does like to talk about the baby. Some days we ask and she wants a baby sister, but more recently she has been saying she wants a baby brother. I told her they could dress up as the Princess and the Frog for Halloween if it's a brother. She liked that idea. ;-)
Were we trying? Yes and No. We have been "trying" for almost 2 years, unsuccessfully. Last October, I started going through testing to see if something was blocked or what was going on. We had zero trouble getting pregnant with Emilia, so everyone seemd baffled by the trouble this time around. The tricky part about this testing was that my insurance from my previous employer was going to expire on 12/31/11 and we were not yet sure what we were doing for insurance in the new year. So, I was pleading with every doctor to get all my tests done before the end of 2011. The last test I needed would have had to been scheduled for the week between Christmas and New Years...but they couldn't squeeze me in since they were short doctors and overbooked. I felt helpless. I got angry and gave up. I decided I was done trying, I was done testing, I was just done.
I absolutely believe in God's perfect timing and my heart was healed over the next few months. I came to terms with the fact that we may not have any more biological children, or it might be a long, long time before we do. Life was picking up as Saipan stuff started taking up more and more time (in a good way!), so I stopped thinking about it altogether. Until about mid-March, when I realized I hadn't had a montly visitor since at least January, maybe Decemeber...hmmm... I waited a several days before telling Jason, because I didn't want to jinx anything. But that home test changed so quickly, I knew I was pregnant!
We were both thrilled and I started set up appointments right away. Since I wasn't sure how far along I was, my doctor scheduled me for an ultrasound the same week as my first appointment. Things get a little hairy since we move to Saipan in July and I am not due until October 24th. My doctor wants to make sure we have precise, clear records to send to Saipan and determining the exact due date was a big one to clear up. It was super exciting to find out that I was already 12 weeks along! We don't like to share pregnancy news before 12 weeks, so there is less chance of having to share bad news if something goes wrong. Luckily we didn't have to wait ANY time!
The weekend before my appointment, we had taken Emilia to a park to snap the photos used for our announcement. This was Jason's idea and it turned out really cute. Everyone seemed to like it and we loved including Emilia in sharing the news. We also let her be the one to tell both sets of grandparents. One set by exclaiming "I'm going to be a big sister" (which she pronounced Stister) ;-) The other Grandma with a "Big Sister" shirt. All the grandparents are excited and sad.
This is just another reminder for them that we are moving far, far away and they won't get to see their newest grandbaby for several months after he/she is born, or possibly 2 years if the cannot come visit. I have days of struggle with this too. They were such a strong support system after Emilia was born- helping with laundry, preparing meals, holding E so I could sleep/shower/etc. I know we will not be alone on Saipan, but it is a little scary to think about not having our mommas close by. This is just another way God is teaching us to trust HIM. He knows exactly what He is doing and I have faith that everything will be OK. (It also helps to remember that I would SO NOT want to have a newborn during our 26 hours of travel to Saipan. Ugh, can you imagine!?)
Now I have a whole new layer to my packing lists, shipping lists, purchasing lists...oh the lists! Thankfully we have quite a bit of Emilia's old baby stuff still. But, we sold all our bigger items, so it's back to car seat and stroller shopping. I am running into some trouble with this because none of the major stores ship to Saipan. So we will have to purchase while in the States and ship it to Saiapn ourselves. I am looking for a good deal on a double jogging stroller, and hope to find one second-hand to save some money. The bigger items are all I can really spend time looking at for the moment, at least until we find out baby's gender--hopefully the beginning of June! (O:
We have also decided to "Go Green" and cloth diaper this time around. Honestly, it has much less to do with the environment (shame on me) and more to do with money. Jason learned on his visit last year that on Saipan, they take one large box of diapers, the kind with 2 plastic sealed sections of diapers inside, open in and sell each of the plastic sections for the price of the one box. So, say Pampers are $25 per box, they are selling each plastic section for $25! Yikes! That will *really* cut into our small budget... I have pretty much made my decision about which clother diapering systems to go with, now to pull our money together and start stocking up.
I think that about covers everything, for now. I am going to try and post weekly updated throughout the pregnancy. I always love reading other bloggers weekly preggo updates about cravings, thoughts, etc. and think it will be fun to look back on one day. Back to one of many product review sites to continue my searches. (O:
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